How to Live Life to the Fullest

      The meaning of your life is something you create day after day with your own actions and thoughts. It is not a spontaneous entity. We create the results we get in life. Life unapologetically gives us back what we give to it. Don't be deceived we reap what we sow.

          What is living life to the fullest? It's not something that arise by chance but by the impact from us. What we give, we get! Granted, some lives are nothing to write home about. Some have it almost to the fullness.Sadly, some are at the point of breaking. How do we get on the course of "self realisation"? Is it by chance or what people claim to be luck? Can I get to that point of fullness, realisation, manifestation and satisfaction? It isn't difficult  as you think.

         So friends, always ask: 

What can I learn at every phase of my life? and

How can I move forward into the next phase of my life? 

And stop yourself from blaming other people if things aren't the way you would like them to be.

          Honestly, what living life to the “fullest” looks like is up to you. Here are some steps to get you started.

          I going to take you on a thirty days journey into LIFE. LiveOutLoud!

Day One

Recognize that life is a journey, not a destination.

This saying is a cliché, but it’s also true: life is as much about how you get where you’re going as where you go. Living your life to the fullest is a process that will take you your whole life to develop. We are evolving. What we face today is not the end of us. There are many colourful sides. Take note you are not living the end of your life. The journey is on and on and on it goes... Some may cry out, "is that how my life is going to end? " "is this the end? " When we cinclude it's the end, life open another phase for us.

             Life is a journey filled with lessons, hardships, heartaches, joys, celebrations and special moments that will ultimately lead us to our destination, our purpose in life. Every phase cones with its own drama. The road will not always be smooth; in fact, throughout our travels, we will encounter many challenges. Some of these challenges will test our courage, strengths, weaknesses, and faith. Along the way, we may stumble upon obstacles that will come between the paths that we are destined to take. In order to follow the right path, we must overcome these obstacles. Each stages or phases are open to us immediately we master a phase and it's obstacles. Most times these obstacles are really blessings in disguise, only we don't realize that at the time. 

                Along our journey we will be confronted with many situations, some will be filled with joy, and some will be filled with heartache. But note that each of those circumstances, is meant for us - to mould us, groom us, brood on us and make us that person that is needed in the next phase of our life. It is because of the heartaches, as well as the hardships, that in the end help to make us a stronger person. Have you ever seen a fish dissatisfied with the ocean? Have ever seen an image that tries to avoid the engraver or a clay pots complaining to the Potter? All these and many more flow with the current of things, accepting the journey and believing the maker, Potter, engraver knows better. Do you know when we don't accept an aorta part of life or any of its process, life becomes hard, and we become dissatisfied with the whole doughnut.

              So, how we react to what we are faced with determines what kind of outcome the rest of our journey through life will be like. You either take it with gladness, learn what life has over on your table and move on. Joss Shipp said/wrote, "You either get bitter or you get better. It's that simple. You either take what has been dealt to you and allow it to make you a better person, it you allow it to tear you down. The choice does not belong to fate, it belongs to you."

Without that, life will be difficult and sch individual will continue to rigmarole at that phase - no progress. Don’t get frustrated if it takes you awhile to learn some things, or if you experience setbacks. This is a natural part of life. In the end you will know why the setbacks. Nothing happen without a cause. 

Someone wrote, "All life is a journey, not a home. It is a road, not the country. And those transient enjoyments which you have in this life, lawful in their way,  - those incidental and evanescent pleasures which you may sip, - are not home. They are little inns upon the road-side of life, where you are refreshed for a moment, that you may take again the pilgrim-staff and journey on, seeking what is still before you - the rest that remaineth for the people of God."

             When things don't always go our way, we have two choices in dealing with the situations. We can focus on the fact that things didn't go how we had hoped they would and let life pass us by, or two, we can make the best out of the situation and know that these are only temporary setbacks and find the lessons that are to be learned. 

           More so, the journey like time stops for no one, and we can't go back to the past, we can only take the lessons that we have learned and the experiences that we have gained from it and move on. If we allow ourselves to focus on the negative we might miss out on some really amazing things that life has to offer.

Life is a journey. When you look down the road you do not known:

What lays ahead where it going nor
How long it will take
What lies at the end of the journey
When you are going to get to the end
If you will reach the end.

 It`s the discoveries that you will make and the lesson you will learn as you thrush into your allotted time as a human being . When you see life as a journey, you will see stages and phases as scenery to "savor" as someone who is a tourist. That's why tourist enjoys their tour and visitation and uphold them as one great and glamorous memories. We should do the same as tourist or people on a journey. 

Love out loud.